It always seemed to me, at least when my folks used to scream for me to lower my music because of that “pounding bass,” that your musical tastes get more refined or limited as you get older. I once laughed so hard when my Dad rushed in complaining of that thumping bass, only to find me listening to classical music.
For me it is quite the opposite. My tastes have gotten broader as I have aged… my musical landscapes are now global, where they were once very small, local and myopic. In college, I went beyond classic rock to actively listening to classical music and jazz… light stuff like Spyro Gyra at first, but then heavy into guys like Ornette Coleman and John Coltrane.
Being so close to Chicago opened up the world of Blues, for which I will be eternally grateful! How many folks can say they saw Albert Collins, Willie Dixon, Koko Taylor and Junior Wells. Sadly, these artists are all gone, kept alive only on vinyl and cassettes and CDs and now mp3 files… Their voices and sounds must be heard… Their torch and torch songs must be passed.
Being in LA surprisingly did not open me up to the Indie music scene, but that of the Texas singer-songwriter, courtesy of an old, lost friend Colin… I hooked into Townes Van Zandt, Jimmie Dale Gilmore, Robert Earl Keen and of course, Lyle Lovett.
My friend Rich showed me the ways of Reggae and Ska, going much deeper than Bob Marley and Jimmy Cliff. Meeting Mark opened me up to the world of electronic music… Massive Attack, William Orbit and Lemon Jelly… and another Marc to the world of Afrobeat with the likes of King Sunny Ade and Femi Kuti.
And KCRW opened me up to practically everything else, including, yes, Indie music!
Well there is one thing… music is meant to be shared, listened to alone but also collectively.
I guess my expanding tastes make logical sense to me, as I overhear what my nine-year-old daughter listens to. She is currently locked into the “Disney type” pop of Miley and Taylor and Jonas… but will allow me to play her some of “my music” from time to time. So there is hope! The music exploration class I want to take her through… alphabetically of course… has been on hold, but we definitely need to get back to it. So far she likes Bruce and Venice and the Beach Boys!
But a burning question plays notes in my mind… what is good music? My folks used to say that if you leave a Broadway show without remembering and singing the songs, then it wasn’t any good. But the palate of Broadway has changed and shows like A Light in the Piazza challenge that notion. You may not leave humming the tunes, but you leave moved by some of the most beautiful music you will ever hear.
And how many bands are now experimenting with sounds and beats and rhythms, challenging the listener; pushing them.
Yes, the best remembered songs are those you can sing or hear in your head in certain, pivotal moments in your life. Those songs and bands and artists create what we call the soundtracks to our lives. But good music can be anything that moves us… and sometimes, that can simply be a sound… even a dissonant, disturbing sound. While we humans seem to move towards a good melody, we must not discount or ignore notes that challenge us.
Good music comes from the heart and the gut. It has an immediacy… an urgency. It takes us somewhere else, yet stays with us. It is ethereal and ever lasting. Music is a collection of notes and sounds, that are sometimes harmonious and sometimes not. It can be made from anything, And good music is whatever we like, whatever we respond to… whatever grabs us at a particular moment. It is as individual as we are, and while we all may not respond to certain things in the same way, the sharing and recommending and community of music is key.
So listen, really listen. Go out and find music and share. For if you cannot make music on your own, this is the next best thing. Your list… your mix tape… your must listen to recommendation is you making music. For a life without music is no kind of life.